A Meaningless Vote? Saudi Women’s Rights Remain Stagnant

“What a difference a day makes, 24 little hours,” is how the song goes, and the line could not ring more true for Saudi women.

This week we saw Saudi King Abdullah grant women the vote in an effort to not only keep the “Arab Spring” away from his Kingdom, but also to quell the the momentum the women’s movement has gained there to remove the country’s notorious driving ban.

But the King is offering too little too late. He is missing the point by responding with the right to vote. Saudi women’s demand to be allowed to drive, a ban which only exists in Saudi Arabia, goes beyond the right to simply be permitted by law to start the engine of your car.

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Anushay’s Point Will Be Back…

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Sorry about the lack of regular posts from me dear readers, both on my personal blog and my regular platforms such as Forbes Woman, Huffington Post, & Ms. Magazine Blog.

I am officially on maternity leave and have been trying to post regularly. My apologies for being away, but be assured I hope to be back after my very brief leave!

Please stay up to date with me on my Facebook and Twitter pages.

Thank you for your continued love and support! I need and rely on it now more than ever.

‘The Help’ 2011? Domestic Worker Abuse Widespread

Domestic servant abuse extends beyond the novel, "The Help". Image Credit: Flickr

Last week, I finally saw the film version of “The Help,” based on the best-selling novel by Kathryn Stockett about the lives of African-American maids working in white people’s homes in 1960′s Jackson, Mississippi. I hadn’t read the book prior to watching the movie which I really loved.

Although the movie showed the racist and unfair treatment of primarily black women at the hands of their white employers, I am sure there were much worse stories the movie did not go into. In fact, just bringing up the topic of the rampant verbal, physical, and mental abuse people inflict upon their domestic help on my Facebook page brought up stories from Dhaka to Potomac, Maryland.

Both before and after the movie, as a Bangladeshi I could not help but let my mind wander beyond the racially segregated America of the 1950′s and 60′s to modern day lives of domestic servants back home. Domestic servant abuse, primarily of female maids but of men and children as well, is so rampant back home that it is practically considered cultural.

Every now and then you’ll hear a story of how someone you know beat their servant so badly he or she ended up in the hospital. And although you may get a gasp here or there as a response, it is largely accepted as a normal part of life. Very rarely do the police get involved and in the rare cases that they do, “justice” is always on the side of the employer. In Bangladesh, and in the Sub-Continent at large, people consider the people who work for them their disposable property to an extent.

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Working to Make A Safe World for Women

I was interviewed by British NGO A Safe World for Women Founder, Chris Crowstaff recently on some topics very close to my heart: Bangladesh, Islam and feminism.

Chris and I connected over Twitter (go social media!), and we made an appointment to have a conversation about these issues. The full  interview is divided into four parts.

You can view Part one here, Part two here, Part three here, & lastly Part four here.

Check it out when you can. I’m honored to be in the company of such great women all doing our part to create a safer world for women and girls.

Moms of the World: How Women Tackle the Myths of Motherhood

Motherhood Manifesto: How Does the Ultimate Feminist Take on the Challenge of Becoming a Mom? Image Credit: Flickr

How women take on motherhood, and all the challenges that come with it, has been an issue I have always been intrigued by though I did not always understand it.

In my twenties, I spent much of my time lamenting about motherhood being equally imprisoning as marriage. In my thirties, being a married woman who is expecting her first child any day now, I of course realize how incorrect I was to generalize an amazing and complicated experience that connects women from around the world.

One of the best discoveries I stumbled upon in my own pregnancy, aside from my 200lb swollen hands and feet, was the incredible resource women are to you when you are expecting. Women are a wealth of knowledge as you try to navigate through pregnancy and impending motherhood.

So naturally as questions of tackling work-motherhood balance plague my mind now more than ever, I decided the best people to get answers from would be other moms. My good friend from college, Camila Figueroa de Fernández, and I came up with the idea to speak with mom friends I had from around the world about the greatest challenges they faced as mothers, what surprised them the most about motherhood, and if they think it is ever possible to achieve balance as a mom. I asked every friend the same five set of questions.

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Purses Over Policy? Pakistan’s Foreign Minister Makes Headlines

Hina Rabbani Khar was just appointed Pakistan’s first female foreign minister, but by reading the headlines you would be forgiven for thinking she had just become the country’s latest fashion export.

Khar went over to India this week, marking the first official state visit between the two countries since the 2008 terrorist bombings in Mumbai, after which India suspended communication with its neighbor and rival. Negotiations and peace dialogues between the two countries pretty much stalled until earlier this year.

Birkins and Business: Khar is Pakistan's First Female Foreign Minister. Image Credit: Views of Women

But the newspapers had no interest in conversations the newly appointed foreign minister had about unfreezing what is often described as “one of the world’s most tense bilateral relations,” instead opting to focus on Khar’s wardrobe:

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Wordless Wednesday

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